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Testimony vs. Peer Pressure

Modern middle class America Christians can justify anything they want as part of maintaining a “good testimony,” and they do not even need to espouse the prosperity gospel to do it. We think we “need” late model cars, 4500+ square foot homes, 65 linear feet of closet space (per person), and internally-wired surround sound  entertainment rooms all “for the ministry.” Why? These things all 1) prove God provides abundantly for His children, 2) allows believers to “open” their home and entertain for the Lord by watching football or inspiring stories, and 3) makes it possible for believers to look their best.

Too often the reality is that the car rarely picks up anyone for church (and sometimes is even too busy to go at all). The big house is never used for Bible Study, prayer, counseling, or housing missionaries. The sagging clothes rod is more about exalting the public self than appearing physically clean, spiritually and morally modest, activity appropriate, and gender embracing before the world.  The entertainment system rarely hosts preaching, since little preaching is on the sports channels.

When any and every desire can be twisted into a “need” for the “Cause,” or to make our “testimony” more engaging to the world and nicer for fellow believers, we must pull back and build some guards to sift those desires that fill bigger and bigger homes with more and more things that take greater and greater amounts of time, energy, and money to steward.

The time to clean, maintain, service, dispose, and care for all this “stuff” is time not spent one-on-one with preschoolers or teenagers. The time cannot be given to the Lord. The time cannot be invested in personal projects or analyzing a home process. Closets, garages, and attics become more and more full with things we will not recycle or pass along, further increasing our need-to-care-for-this-quotient.

Honestly, how tangled up is your testimony with bigger and better things? Clean Cup Cleaning requires asking the dreaded contentment question, “If this were the best it would ever be, would I be content?” over and over again.

Clean Cup Cleaning can be a game of caring for and making do with what you have been handed, sometimes far longer than anyone could ever imagine, or grand experiment of making the most of the little available, but only for someone who answers that pesky contentment question positively even when a change for the better is just about to happen. The creative input to develop systems that will effectively reorganize and revamp without extensive purchases is only operational when not buying our way out of an issue is the only option.

Personality Traits vs. Personal Character

The world may be able to be able to excuse much due to childhood traumas, poor parenting, free spirit mentality, or an overloaded schedule, but biblicists can access Holy Spirit empowerment to become capable at fulfilling priorities within the adequate time the Lord has provided. Believers can fulfill responsibilities (yes, even dull housecleaning tasks). Believers can successfully function at times other than their “best times.” Believers can conquer weak flesh, lazy habits, and poor skills when they make choices to do right rather than please self. No excuses. Read more

House Cleaning or Home Organization

Defining terms is an important part of communication, clear thinking, and resolving disagreements, and has its place even in something as mundane as cleaning. Before we tackle the cleaning principles found in the cleansing Word of God, we need to define some terms.

Cleaning removes dirt, dust, unhealthy waste and garbage. Organization sets up systems, processes, procedures, for storage or operating in a home. Cleaning requires technical knowledge and practice with physical cleaning skills. Organization requires foresight, and the ability to visualize what physical arrangements or what order of doing tasks will yield the most effective use of space or time. Good organization often makes it easier to know what is in need of cleaning attention, but sometimes people despair of a “dirty” home, that is primarily (or at least, most noticeably), disorganized and cluttered. In such cases, soap and water scrubbing will not solve the long-term problem. Read more

Three Jobs, One Life

If you pull out a list of all the jobs that need doing around almost any home, they will fall into roughly three categories: janitorial, managerial, or executive. Most paying jobs fall into basically one of those three categories, but the home is a significant blend of all three.

I’d even go so far as to say, that much of the frustration of “staying at home” is the result of overemphasizing the janitorial aspect, which in turns results in neglect of the very real obligations of the other areas. Read more

Clean Cup Cleaning

The elegant dining room held a full wall of built-in cherry wood cabinets designed for a stunning array of fine china and silver; the interior lighting allowing the gold-rimmed dishes, silver bowls, and trays to shimmer and sparkle behind their glass doors. The display cabinets, tastefully carved table, and comfortable leather chairs all spoke of evenings of fine conversation and fine eating, so the offer of tea from the beautiful dishes was an invitation readily accepted and delightfully anticipated. Read more